Self Trust
November 28, 2020 @ 21:00 pm (2 hours)
Fuoco

Join fuoco in a class that is part demonstration and part guided discussion about the ways that we as bottoms can contribute to trust being built within a tying partnership, and also the things that help us understand when trust might not be a safe thing for us to offer. We'll talk about this in two main parts: pick-up play and establishing trust within consistent, familiar partnerships. For those bottoms who often engage in pick up play, we'll discuss vetting a rigger in terms of what you can visually assess about their tying skills and how to negotiate according to what you see. For established partners, we'll discuss fuoco's rule of "yes, and" as a tool you can use to measure wether or not skills can be scened with or need more lab time, and the ways that discussions like these can be constructive and trust building.